Well, another year is gone. Have I not been here in that long? Guess so. That's understandable though, many things are changing in my life, and letting people actually read this stupid thing may be one of them...Like, my thoughts are mine and if someone's that curious they should ask. However, blogging does have it's perks. It is a good tool for venting when you just don't want to deal with people. KK, enough of that.

Had a pretty good weekend. Went out for a bit on Friday. Place was uber packed, not really my bag lately so wasn't all that excited. Not my choice but I dealt with it and it wasn't so bad. Didn't stay out so late either which I really didn't mind. Went to see a band on Saturday which was pretty cool. Hung out with some people that I normally wouldn't. Not that I wouldn't hang with them, just that I haven't really before. Anyways, had a really good time...they're cool people. It's a nice change of pace hanging out with people that you don't usually associate with that often. Different conversation, different points of view, just about different everything.

Had a long talk with a buddy that night too. Reality check. Well, not so much of a reality check since most of what was said I had already known. It's different hearing someone else say it though, it makes it a little more real. Still, people see things the way they want to see them. People view others in their own light along with the actions those others take. And people are going to do what they want to do even if the consequences might suck. We got into the "nice guy" discussion...fun fun fun....made it a point to list some potential "nice guys". I have to agree that some mentioned would fit the suit, but the suit still wouldn't be perfect in my eyes. It all comes down to individual expectations and standards. A person that might be the perfect gemtleman or the ultimate nice guy might not fit the bill of someone I'd be willing to date. It happens, not saying that I have an exact mold of someone I would date, however certain factors do come into play when making a decision like that. Physical attraction is #1...to be quite honest, if there's no spark in that department then it's shot to shit from the beginning. I'm not saying that a Vin Diesel look alike is necesary, everyone has their own tastes and has their likes and dislikes, but no matter what anyone says, this is something that matters. Another thing is conversation. If I have nothing to say to someone and that someone has nothing to say to me, then it's not going to work out. It could be anything...watching the same cartoons when you were a kid....how you got the scar on your arm...what music you listened to in high school....anything. That is one of the things that makes a good relationship work. Not only a romantic or serious relationship though, that goes for a friendship too. Someone who you go out with a number of times and runout of things to say is someone that isn't going to cut it. On the other hand, someone who makes you pee your pants laughing and you never have a dull moment with is someone you should try to have stick around. Look at me, I'm writing like an advice columnist. OK, there is so much more to this blog and just not enough time right now to finish it....Until tomorrow....